A man is never happy, he spends his entire life struggling to achive something he thinks it will make him happy; he rarely achieves his goal, and when he does he gets nothing but a big disappointment: happiness last half a moment. Chasing happiness, in time he becomes a wreck, and then it doesn’t even matter how happy or unhappy he was. His happiness never lasted for more than a moment, which has always disappeared. Moreover, he realizes the achievement of this state too late, when the moment is already gone.
People, in general, perceive happiness after they achieve some material things, or when...
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When we find a person we consider interesting, attractive and compatible and especially when there are certain feelings, big mistakes may occur. We raise people a lot in our minds. We become blind and raise them up on pedestals. Much higher than they actually are. We react unnaturally in their presence, we change our behavior and we make childish gestures. We raise them too much when they actually are nothing but normal people, if we look objectively. We are blind to their faults, serious sometimes, because we mentally cancel them all. That's because instinctively we are in search of the ideal...
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How strange it is to observe deep things ... and then to want to share them with someone ... then to realize there is nobody to share them to, because they will not be understood, and people are too busy with their daily odds and ends to give them the attention they actually deserve. It is strange to not even have time to tell them, because time passes by with incredible speed and you do not have time to do many things, much less to communicate with one near you. And then to understand that you don’t even have to do it, because people are too busy 'to live the moment' than to understand the depth...
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Have you noticed that people actually remain the same? I realized recently that most people remain absolutely the same life. They have the same habits, the same ideas, the same weaknesses, the same way to proceed, the same way to relax, the same 'horseshit'-ah, how embarrassing!, the same reactions, the same 'inurements'- the leopard changes only his spots :D-, the same concerns, the same tastes, etc., etc.- how boring !! There are very, very few people have the strength to change their existence, to reinvent themselves, to truly evolve, to totally change their lives and to overcome their limits!...
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I just read a few articles and reviews about some persons who are really special to me, people I know, who have real value and who have succeeded in life.
I see regularly people’s viciousness and frustrations for those who have succeeded. Many such frustrations are revealed through the press. It throws mud and venom in those who obviously are above the rest, in many respects: image, beauty, brilliance, charisma, socially, financially, intellectually, etc. Or who simply are different; in a way that most people cannot be. This 'sport' is practiced for two reasons: it meets the frustration of those...
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These days I realized how serious and dangerous routine is. And how it leads to self-limitation. And how many people encounter this problem. Due to the job they have, or to the shortcomings, or due to coziness or the inability to get out of it. Or simply due to a lifestyle that remains the same for a long time. It goes hand in hand with the lack of desire or capacity for development, with no cultural, educational or style accumulations. With the lack of new aspirations. Then boredom shows up. You get bored of you, of your life, of your partner. And your partner gets bored of you, as well as of your...
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Perfectly aware that I will create debates or attract dislikes, I am troubled by a set of questions which, although it may be limited to a single rhetorical question, I will ask the ladies, now live on Facebook: What is in a woman’s head when she gives herself to a man, then to another, then to another, then to another, etc, etc, etc, etc...? Doesn’t she realize at all that actually her moral, social level, her intrinsic quality, decreases in direct proportion to the number of men whom she had? Doesn’t she realize that she is not worth it in the eyes of a respectable and exigent man and he loses...
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